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19 proven ways to fix your wife — when she is falling apart!

Your wife can be dying in silence while still per­form­ing her wife­ly duties. You will need to real­ly know when she needs to be fixed.

When a woman is always moody, cries a lot, yells on Chil­dren, can’t eas­i­ly sleep or sleeps a lot, she may be bat­tling with some­thing you are not care­ful enough to see.A real man will not allow his wife to fall apart with­out fix­ing her and mak­ing her bet­ter and hap­py.

If you dis­cov­er your wife is falling apart, these are proven guild­lines that can fix her:

1. CHECK IF YOU ARE THE PROBLEM

You might be her prob­lem, but out of her respect and love for you, she may not want to tell you. It’s your duty to per­suade her to her talk sin­cere­ly and tru­ly.

2. BE AWARE OF HER RESPONSIBILITIES

Get to know how if her work­load is killing her, regard­less of whether she stays at home or goes to work.

You would­n’t know her rou­tine of  of work each day If you don’t, ask her. Prob­a­bly her “to-do” list is over­flow­ing with tasks that far out­weighs her time and ener­gy.

3. BE APPRECIATIVE

You have to be mind­ful of her needs and appre­ci­ate her sac­ri­fices. The work a woman does at home can be too com­mon that nobody will appre­ci­ate her, this may be killing her with­in. Appre­ci­ate your wife

4. GET INVOLVED BEFORE SHE BURNS OUT

Don’t just be appre­cia­tive, but get involved. The best time to begin help­ing your wife is now. Don’t wait until she breaks down to offer a help­ing hand.

5. GET MACHINES

Get all the machine need­ed for her work at home (the ones you can afford). Dish wash­er, gas cook­er, refrig­er­a­tor, oven, laun­dry machine, etc

6. BE AN ACTIVE PARTICIPANT

Be total­ly involved at home, stop del­e­gat­ing par­ent­ing and fam­i­ly life to her alone, don’t be a “vis­it­ing Pro­fes­sor”, be an active part­ner in this busi­ness of your mar­ried life. It takes two to make a mar­riage work, It takes two to run a house­hold, so be ful­ly involved in every aspect of your fam­i­ly.

7. HOLD HER

Hold her like a lover and a friend and place your hands on her shoul­der, her hips, hold her hands,  let her feel your presence.….touch her.

8. BE A LISTENER

Men are known to be good in talk­ing but very bad lis­ten­ers. At times what your wife needs is for you to just lis­ten. Do not inter­rupt her while she speaks, allow her unbur­den her mind to you. Some­times the best way for a woman to reset is by get­ting all of her thoughts out.

Let your wife talk through her feel­ings and prob­lems. Show empa­thy, lis­ten care­ful­ly and ask ques­tions. Be ful­ly engaged in the con­ver­sa­tion.

9. BE A PARTNER NOT A TEACHER

Most men do fall into the “Teach­ing trap” when they are sup­posed to be a part­ner, show­ing love and con­sid­er­a­tion.

Do not play the blame game, be there for her and just lis­ten. That’s all you need to do and if she wants you to offer solu­tions, she’ll sure­ly ask.

10. GIVE HER HOPE

No mat­ter what hap­pens, don’t ever raise up your hands in sur­ren­der, giv­ing up, cry­ing or weep­ing will hurt your wife even more.

You should be the source of her Encour­age­ment by let­ting her know  she is a strong woman and that’s what you love about her. Help her see the good in any sit­u­a­tion, avoid being crit­i­cal or neg­a­tive.

When she has hit the rock bot­tom, be the man who lifts her up, and brings light and hope back into her life.

11. BE SENSITIVE

Get to know her mood, get to know her needs, get to know what is need­ed to be done at home and do them with­out being prompt­ed.

Learn the art of look­ing around the house and find­ing things that need­ed to get done. Are there dish­es in the sink? What is bro­ken that needs to be fixed? Don’t wait to be asked. Just do it!

12. PRAY FOR HER

Take your time off to pray for her, hand her over to her mak­er who knows the deep­est need of her heart . Let God also fix her.

Let God know what you appre­ci­ate about her. Ask for his help. Ask him to tell you how you can be a bet­ter spouse to her. Ask him to com­fort her and help her see her­self as He sees her.

13. PRAY WITH HER

Don’t just pray for your wife, find time to pray with her, hug her as you pray togeth­er, hold her hands, know what you can do to help her reset. Ask her ques­tions. She will open up to you, it may not be what you think, so don’t spec­u­late, ask, she’ll appre­ci­ate it more than you will ever know.

15. HELP AROUND THE HOUSE

Give a help­ing hand around the house. Give her a kitchen hol­i­day for some days, do all the cook­ing or hire some­body to do it for you. Let her just sit, eat and rest, this may be all she needs.

16. TAKE HER OUT

Take her out, eat out, go to the cin­e­ma, go to wher­ev­er she will love to go, not where you want, just fol­low her.

17. ALLOW HER TO CRY, IF SHE MUST

Stop cry­ing, are you a baby?, will you be cry­ing about this lit­tle thing?” This is what most hus­band do when their wife cries. If she feels like cry­ing, hold her to your­self and let her do the cry­ing while you pat her on the back. It’s a great way to fix her.

18. LET HER GO ON HOLIDAY

Allow her to go on hol­i­day to rest all alone to her­self, or both of you can go on hol­i­day togeth­er where she will be able to rest… this can fix the prob­lem as she returns with greater ener­gy.

19. CELEBRATE HER

Let your wife be cel­e­brat­ed. Cel­e­brate her in secret and in pub­lic. Talk about her beau­ty, moth­er­hood, wife hood, sup­port, thought­ful­ness. This will make her day.

Men read and apply.…

Women read and share to your man.

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