A man has confessed that looking at his mother’s n3kedness and watching her undress made him become a chronic masturbator.
A Nigerian man, Kolawole Ladipo has shared an intriguing message to parents concerning some habits and s3xual behaviours that could ruin the life of their kids.
In a recent post, he narrated how a boy became addicted to masturbation by always seeing his mother undress before him at an early age.
SOME FAMILY BEHAVIOR DESTROYS KIDS
“MY MUM DRESSES UP BEFORE ME”!
I counselled a young guy who was addicted to masturbation. He told me he can’t do without masturbation. One thing that struck me in his confession was when he said: ”My mum caused all this for me”.
Curiosity got hold of me and I asked him, how?
He said: “I started masturbation since when I was 4 years old; my mum has always been dressing up n3ked before me, I am used to seeing her n3kedness. I am not moved to have s3x with her, but I always long to see mature ladies n3ked just the way I always see my mum dressing up n3ked before me.”
“I still remember seeing her n3kedness regularly till I was 8 years; and my dad do shout on her:
‘Send this boy out before you dress,’ but my mum would always reply by saying: ‘Will my son sleep with me? Stop planting evil thought in his heart.’
“Anytime I see my mum’s n3ked body, I long to see ladies’ n3ked body.
I then went into s3x at age 10 and till now I am not free from s3x and heavy masturbation…”
Dear parents, I hope you are not guilty of this? You are dressing up before your 2 years old son/daughter; you say he/she doesn’t know anything yet? That’s very cruel.
Some couples will be having s*x while their close-to-2-years old child will be in their room with them; they’ll feel and think that he/she can only see, he/she can’t understand.
Sir/ma’am, that your child does not need to understand. Seeing your n3kedness or seeing you and your spouse getting down is enough to plant abnormal s3xual fantasies and urge in that child. Remember, it is now a jet world!
How will you destroy your own children with your own carelessness?
Don’t let your children see your n3kedness.
Don’t get down in the presence of your child no matter the age.
The scene sticks to the memory, they may want to explore and experiment what they are seeing.
Stop making free home-made ‘s3x clips or video’ for your children to watch.
Mummy, sit properly.
Dress properly too.
Stop sitting as if you are in the labour room; parting your legs for your son to see your inner part.
Be very careful!
Daddy, don’t wear ordinary boxer at home, you sit down, your ‘thing’ is dangling and your daughter is seeing it. There are things you should not wear beyond your bedroom, just for your spouse. Don’t say because you want to enjoy your freedom in your house. It’s not your house alone, it’s a family house/home. You are putting your children into s3xual bondage through these acts. The initiation starts from home.
Mummy, wearing ordinary bra around the house in the presence of your sons is dangerous. Yes, they won’t lust after you, but you might be messing up with their sensuality; and increasing their curiosity to see that of ladies out there.
Let’s stop being ‘s3xual materials’ to our children. Raising s3xually pure children, it begins at home.’ It begins with me and you.
Thank you very much for the issues raised in family this situation. It is still our responsibility to build virtue into our family. We need to learn from others.
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