If a man had to choose between being respected or desired, he'd choose being respected, because if he's not respectable he's not desirable. That's why a man isn't offended being called UGLY rather being called USELESS...

And a woman needs to feel DESIRED

If awoman had to choose between being desired or being respected, she'd choose being desired & be insecure that she isn't respected. That's why calling a woman UGLY is more hurtful to her than calling her a SLUT

I didn't make these rules!!!