Is It Wrong to Marry A Catholic Man? After Our Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Lights.
Dear Toktok9jarians,
I have an issue that has been on my mind for weeks now. My fiancé and I have been dating for over three years. I love him and he loves me too. We are physically attracted to each other.
We’re both catholic but since I graduated, during my service year I gave my life to Christ, got saved, and left the Catholic Church. So I’ve been a Pentecostal Christian since then. He on the other hand is still catholic.
I subtly try to nudge him to consider getting saved, i.e acknowledging Christ as Lord and savior and becoming born again but he is content with his laidback Christian life
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Earlier this year, he asked to meet my parents and I let him. My parents like him especially because my younger sis is married and they have been waiting for me too.
They’re glad I’ve someone. However, after the introduction, I regretted it. I’m now certain that he’s not the one. I think about my spiritual life and how lukewarm he is about the things of God, I think about our future kids and how we’ll raise them, with such differing views about God, and I’m discouraged.
I feel like I’m settling because he checks all the boxes on the checklist of physical attributes. Another mistake I made is, I didn’t pray about this decision and that worries me.
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Anything that involves him, I just act with pausing to ask God, but I always ask God about other aspects of my life. So it’s like my associating with him is a minus for my spiritual life and that’s a huge cause for concern.
At this point, I want to tell my parents I am not convinced it’s him but I’m afraid of the disappointment this will cause. *sigh* I’ll appreciate your thoughts, comments, criticisms…
This soul needs your advice.
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