Life Story: “Why I Would Never Send My Children To Boarding School Where Homosexuality and Lesbianism are Rampant”.
A lot of parents, especially the very busy ones, prefer to send their children to boarding schools, rather than day schools, where they would not have to worry about the hassle of taking care of their children.
My experience in a boarding school has turned me totally against sending my children to any boarding school of any sort.
Even if I should consider the thought, I can never be a single-gender boarding school, rather it would be a mixed boarding.
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A lot of things happen at boarding schools, but it would be better for my son to come back with a girl he put in the family way than coming home with his fellow man, a trend that had grown with boarding schools.
My father used to work with a firm in Ibadan and my mom was a busy businesswoman. That meant they didn’t have much time for us, and that meant boarding school for all of us.
My younger brothers were the lucky ones. They went to mixed boarding schools, while I was sent to an all-boys school.
I was a good-looking boy back then, and I attracted a lot of senior students, who wanted me to be their ” earn boy”.
I was taken under the wings of a senior student, and I was posted to his room under his custody.
The abuse came some months later. He was always very nice to me, sparing me from doing so much work, and always wanting me around him.
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He started touching me funny along the line. Initially, I didn’t understand what he wanted, until the day he kissed me. Then I realised I was in trouble, and everything I have been hearing about some senior students was real.
He assaulted me some weeks later. I could not tell anybody. Who could I tell? I was a very small boy and didn’t know what was happening. It kept happening for almost a month until I summoned the courage to tell the chapel prefect what I was going through.
He took the matter up, and the senior student was expelled from the school.
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I was one victim who spoke up, but there are many who aren’t able to speak up and endure these abuses in boarding schools for years.
After my experience, I swore I’ll never send my child to a boarding school. It’s best I raise my child where I can pay close attention to him or her, and raise them in my own values, then leaving my child at the mercy of others, in a place thousands of miles away, I may not be able to get to them on time.
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