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30 HABITS THAT SHOW IMPROPER UPBRINGING IN CHILDREN

Please, care­ful­ly look into the list below to see where you may want to make
amends on your­self or the young ones you are car­ing for.

Chil­dren, if not prop­er­ly groomed may nev­er get to the top in life, even if
the par­ents are at the top of their career.

Man­ners take you to where your edu­ca­tion can’t take you, irre­spec­tive of
your sta­tus, mon­ey or the “who you know” fac­tor.



This is not meant to hurt any­one or pin­point on some­one for their
upbring­ing. Its a gen­er­al mes­sage tar­get­ed to all the par­ents of today.

1. Going to your child’s school dressed inde­cent­ly? Think again.

2. Speak­ing rash­ly to your child’s teacher.

3. Curs­ing, using foul words or swear­ing in front of your chil­dren.

4. Using make­up on chil­dren.

5. Dress­ing with tight clothes and inde­cent­ly for chil­dren (they
loose the sense of their princess­hood and may not lis­ten to you in future)

7. Your child holds the cup or glass­ware by the brim and you don’t
make a cor­rec­tion.

8. Your chil­dren don’t greet and you just feel they will come
around one day because they have a mood swing. (You will be blamed for it)

9. Your chil­dren eat with their mouth opened and you feel they will
grow up some day.

10. Your chil­dren brought home some­thing you did not buy for them
and you said noth­ing. (That is the begin­ning of steal­ing)

11. They talked back at you and you con­clud­ed it’s okay since
you’re a 21st cen­tu­ry mum­my. (You will hate your­self if they do that out­side
and they are dis­ci­plined)

12. They inter­rupt when you are speak­ing with anoth­er adult and you
think they are bold and clever. (It’s real­ly bad man­ners)

13. They exer­cise author­i­ty over their nan­ny and domes­tic staff and
you let them be. (That is bad par­ent­ing)

14. They say things like “my dri­ver is on his way…”

I am not an advo­cate that chil­dren should call your domes­tic staff aun­ty or
broth­er but, call­ing them by names when they are not young peo­ple is not poise
either. The use of Miss, Mr or Mrs will look good on them.

15. Your chil­dren don’t say- ‘Thank you’ when they have been helped
or served some­thing. They don’t know how to say “please” when they
need some­one for help; and you are cool with that. (Bad par­ent­ing)

16. When your chil­dren can­not stand chil­dren who are less
priv­i­leged.

18. When they pick their nose with their hands.

19. When they don’t wash their hands after vis­it­ing the wash­room.

20. When your chil­dren take some­thing from the fridge with­out
tak­ing per­mis­sion. (Bad par­ent­ing)

21. When your chil­dren don’t knock on closed doors.

22. When your chil­dren don’t col­lect from your hands the stuff you
brought in as you walk in through the door.

23. When your chil­dren request for a bribe to car­ry out their home
chores or extra task. (That is dis­grace­ful)

24. When your chil­dren act like their grand­par­ents are irri­tat­ing
them.

25. When your chil­dren have not learnt to get up from the chair for
the elder­ly or vis­i­tors to sit.

26. When your child tells a lot of lies. (You will both cry in the
future if such is not put to check)

27. When your child asks “who is that?” at a knock on
your door instead of “please, who is there.”

28. When your child is always seat­ed by your vis­i­tors when being
served drinks etc.

29. When your chil­dren still point their fin­gers at oth­er peo­ple.

30. When your chil­dren play and jump around when prayers are going
on. (age 4 above).

Don’t be a 21st Cen­tu­ry par­ent who can­not cor­rect a child. Train your child
in the way of the Lord, so that when he grows up he will not depart from it.

IT IS BETTER TO LET YOUR CHILDREN CRY AT AN EARLY AGE WHEN YOU CORRECT
THEM, IF NOT YOU WILL BOTH CRY AT NIGHT WHEN THEY BRING DISGRACE TO THE FAMILY
WITH BAD AND TERRIBLE BEHAVIOURS!

May Almighty God nev­er let this be our por­tion. Amen.

You can do well to cir­cu­late this piece to all par­ents and grand­par­ents that
are on your con­tact

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