The First Time My Boyfriend Cheated on Me and the Crazy Thing I Did.
A lady has shared her ordeal on cheating boyfriends and the thing she did after discovering.
It’s quite surprising that men are never satisfied with what they have no matter the beautiful woman God bless them with, they’ll always look outside for no just reason.
Read her story…
“You may be confused. Isn’t having a newborn supposed to be the happiest time in your life? Especially if it’s your first child.
This was the day I found out my boyfriend, her father, was cheating on me.
I got dressed up and did my makeup for the first time since giving birth, so I could hopefully look desirable again to him. Or somebody. Anybody. I had never felt so low before.
I went to the park to spend time with my daughter and think about things. You might judge me since she was so tiny and brand new, but I had to get out of the house. I took a picture of us to document her first time at the park.
I wasn’t even angry with my boyfriend like you would assume. I was angry with myself. I felt like the biggest failure. How had I chosen such a horrible partner. A horrible father for my beautiful, precious gift. She was everything to me since I first found out about her, and I had already failed her before her life had started.
A month later I finally confronted him about the cheating. We got in a verbal fight, which led to him physically assaulting me. It wasn’t the first time it happened, but it was by far the worst.
I am so proud to say I left the next day while he was at work. It has been the hardest thing I’ve ever done, but now I can look into my daughters eyes and not feel guilty. I know I’m giving her the best life I can provide, which is all I can do. I had to forgive myself for choosing her father, because if not it would eat me alive.
I share this story so if anyone out there is in an abusive relationship they will see that it is possible to leave.
Edit: I figured I’d add a picture to show that we are doing fine now.
She turns a year old tomorrow.”
What’s your thought on this?
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