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The uneducated men who sponsor girls throughout the school to marry her should examine their conscience.
A selfless lover would notice the potential in her and desire to develop such talent via educating her.
The moment he begins to guilt-trip her into marriage, he becomes a selfish lover. His generosity no longer counts as an act of kindness. He is only using her to satisfy his desire to own (marry) an educated person. He desires to improve his perceived status among his uneducated peers by marrying one of a higher status. He is no different from the rich man who gives while making a public show of it.
The lady on the other hand desires a man to help her achieve her goal to be educated. She had to pretend to be in love with him to achieve her goal. There was no love. Each person only desired to use the other. The lady only outsmarted him in the selfish web.
Some readers said he would have married her first before spending a dime on her. It changes nothing. It does not guarantee a happy union. Who says she will not catch feelings for another person? Who says she will not seek divorce later? It only transforms the problem.
We need to examine our perception of love.
Just a freelance thinker sharing my thoughts, feel free to add your own thoughts via the comment section
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