What keeps a man in a relationship is not sex? Read, This Could Save Your Relationship.
Some people say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, while some say it is through sex. I have also met people who said all they need is a woman who can listen. And then you meet another group of men who will tell you they like intelligent women, different strokes for different folks.
Now the question is, what keeps a man in a relationship? Well, I do not belong to the school of thought that says the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach or sex. Because I have seen many girls who can cook a great meal, but complain about being dumped. I have also seen people who are into sex relationships, which also did not end in marriage, and it was not because the lady was not good in bed or something. It is either the lady has an attitude problem, or she is disrespectful, or she is dumb, etc.
Every mature man wants a woman who is intelligent, respectful, and pays attention. Food and sex are secondary. Some men will tell you a woman who is intelligent, respectful, and pays attention can always learn how to cook and have sex, but a woman who knows how to cook and have sex, and is disrespectful and does not pay attention is difficult to teach. Another thing men look out for is how neat and organize a woman is. You need to enter some ladies’ house you can not stay there for 5 minutes, everywhere is scattered and dirty.
They can not even take proper care of themselves, from their armpits to their nails. They cannot even shave their armpits. Such things can put a man off. Unless the man likes you, he can not stay with you.
I hear some ladies complain that I slept with my boyfriend, and he dumped me. The truth is that sex alone does not keep a man in a relationship. A man can always buy sex anytime, any day. And then you hear some other ladies who complain that their boyfriend dumped them because they refused to sleep with them.
Now the ones who had sex are complaining, the ones who did not have sex are also complaining, so what then is the problem. Do we have 24 hours in a day when you are with the man what do you guys talk about? Are you able to make sound contributions? If he is thinking about a business, can you brainstorm with him?
Can you help him in any other way outside kissing, hugging, and having sex? Are you sound, spiritually, mentally, intellectually, physically. What do you have to offer? There are other things a man wants in a woman aside from sex. As a woman, you need to build yourself mentally, spiritually, physically, intellectually. Men like intelligent women. They like women who think and have ideas, women who respect them.
Do you even have respect for a man? Is your life about buying things? Some ladies’ if they ask you the Governor of your state, you do not even know. Make yourself so strong and so well built that a man would be afraid to lose you. Even if he chooses to leave you, he is going to come back to you because there is something you have to offer. What they want are beauty and a brain. You can meet a man who meets you today and sleeps with you, and you become his friend for life. You can also meet a man who stays with you for one year without sleeping with you, and he eventually sleeps with you and still leaves.
These things are neither here nor there. The only thing the girls of today know how to do is to make up and deceive themselves that they are slaying queens.
Your makeup has to start from the inside because the internal makeup is what sustains the external.
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