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Love360 Things to Put in Mind Before Choos­ing a Spouse

In life, one of the most impor­tant choice you will need to make is who to mar­ry. This choice is so impor­tant that if you miss it, you will suf­fer for long, if you get it right then you will enjoy for­ev­er.
A bad mar­riage can affect every oth­er area of your life. This sub­ject is so impor­tant to the
extent that so many mar­ried peo­ple are hop­ing to be sin­gle again so as to be able to make the right choice all over again. If you are sin­gle please don’t just be in a hur­ry to get mar­ried, because you still have the best oppor­tu­ni­ty to pre­pare for it.

For two peo­ple to come togeth­er to live in peace and har­mo­ny, they must agree spir­i­tu­al­ly, men­tal­ly and phys­i­cal­ly. Just like an ele­phant can­not mar­ry an ant so also a believ­er can­not mar­ry an unbe­liev­er. If an ele­phant mar­ries an ant how would they live, if a goat mar­ries a fish where would they meet?

You must look for a sin­cere and right­eous man or a sin­cere and right­eous woman to mar­ry, noth­ing can beat this. The dev­il’s pri­ma­ry tar­get is the fam­i­ly. He knows that every­one belongs to a fam­i­ly and if he can bring two wrong peo­ple togeth­er in mar­riage, then he will suc­ceed in break­ing the com­mu­ni­ty ties and the nation down as a whole, and this is part of what we’re wit­ness­ing all over the world present­ly.

Ignore your age and the pres­sure for a moment, the pres­sure in a wrong mar­riage is far worse. GOD has some­body for you but you must set your pri­or­i­ties right. What do you need in a woman? What do you need in a man?

Mar­riage is not about what you want, it is about who you need, that will make you bet­ter while you make him bet­ter, it’s not some­thing you just jump into. That is why you must know your pur­pose before you get mar­ried. You must pray before you choose.

GOD knows the best per­son for you, it is only wise to seek His will. It is very easy to know GOD’s will when sex is not involved. The moment sex is involved and you want to know His will then He will blank you out. Why? Because you have bro­ken His first Law of NO SEX before mar­riage. If you have had sex in the past then you need to repent total­ly and stay away from each oth­er, then you can seek for­give­ness from GOD. Your mar­riage will not be hell on earth. Your mar­riage will be hon­ourable.

Don’t mar­ry for sex, don’t mar­ry because you are of age, don’t mar­ry because you are get­ting old, don’t mar­ry because you are lone­ly, don’t mar­ry because you need some­one to sup­port you finan­cial­ly, don’t mar­ry because you mis­tak­en­ly got preg­nant, don’t mar­ry because you don’t want to lose the per­son, don’t mar­ry because of fam­i­ly pres­sures, don’t mar­ry because you like the idea of mar­riage and admire every wed­ding gown you see, don’t mar­ry because all your friends are get­ting mar­ried.

But get mar­ried because you want to ful­fill what GOD has ordained on every slave of His. Get mar­ried because you want to be a help mate, but most of all, because you want to ful­fil a pur­pose of hav­ing com­plet­ed half of your reli­gion, your deen. GOD will help you in
choos­ing, please let’s all con­tin­ue to pray per­vent­ly to GOD for all we want.
He loves us so dear­ly and He will answer all our sup­pli­ca­tions at the right time. Good Morn­ing to you alll.….….……

#James Ifeanyi Onuo­rah.

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