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FIFTEEN THINGS A WIFE CAN DO TO MESS UP HER MARRIAGE

 
Relationship going bad.
1) DARING YOUR HUSBAND TO BEAT YOU:
You block the door way, then dare him to beat you up and see what will hap­pen. A Lot of women have done this and end up regret­ting.
 
2) DARING YOUR HUSBAND TO SLEEP WITH ANOTHER WOMAN:



 

You will be mak­ing a major mis­take if you dare your hus­band to sleep with anoth­er woman. You may live to regret it.

 
3) NEGLECTING YOUR BODY AND LOOKS BECAUSE YOU ARE MARRIED:
“I am mar­ried i can relax, after all who is look­ing at me.?” He mar­ried you Slim, sexy and trendy. Next thing you become obsessed, dirty and shab­bi­ly dressed. 
It is the mis­take of most care­less mar­ried women.
 
4) DENYING YOUR HUSBAND CEX REGULARLY: 

You are a career woman; You are an over­ly reli­gious woman… Hmmm! You feel sex in mar­riage is sec­ondary, you deny your hus­band your body reg­u­lar­ly, so he is sex­u­al­ly starved and inti­ma­cy fam­ished. His Sec­re­tary, col­leagues and girls in church are seduc­ing and beg­ging him to come to them but you have pad­locked your Jerusalem and expect him not to lust after oth­ers. His mind will drift from you towards them.

 
5) LEAVING YOUR HUSBAND FOR YOUR FEMALE FRIEND TO CATER FOR:
“My dear friend, please be my eye as I trav­el for this one week, help cater for my hus­band and my lit­tle kids”. By the time you are back, your dear friend has so real­ly helped you by sleep­ing with your hus­band and expect­ing a new baby as con­tin­u­a­tion from where you stopped. 
If at all she has not eloped with your man, leav­ing your chil­dren all alone.
It is very stu­pid to com­mit your hus­band into the hands of your beau­ti­ful and very active friend.
 
6) LEAVING YOUR HUSBAND IN THE HANDS OF YOUR HOUSE MAID:
Your maid is the one that cooks,cleans the house, cares for the chil­dren and your hus­band. You sud­den­ly become a lazy bone since the arrival of the maid. All you do is shout and place orders. Not bad! But if your hus­band feels more love and care from the maid, sis­ter that maid won’t strug­gle to snatch your hus­band. You are the one gra­cious­ly giv­ing him to her and those that need him.
 



7) EMPLOYING A FULLY GROWN, RED BLOODED LADY AS A MAID:
She is ful­ly grown up and well endowed back and front very tan­ta­liz­ing. She dress­es skimpi­ly and sex­i­ly like an actress, cat walks like a mod­el and that is your own house maid?
What a mis­take!
 
8) EMPLOYING A HOUSE GIRL THAT IS MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN YOU:
Employ­ing a house girl more beau­ti­ful than you is a major tech­ni­cal mis­take most women make. This means you are using your mon­ey to employ a rival for your­self. Don’t be fool­ish when get­ting a maid. They act dumb like maids to you for the time being but when your hus­band starts sleep­ing with them, you will be shocked they are more agile than you when they start fight­ing you.
 
9) USING ANALOG BRAIN TO LIVE WITH A DIGITAL HUSBAND:
Your hus­band is grow­ing with ideas and all; you con­tribute noth­ing than sit­ting down at home to eat. He is dress­ing like a guy with jeans and face cap; you are cel­e­brat­ing the fact that you are a mar­ried woman to a Yup­py cute man. Your hus­band is on *Twit­ter, Face­book, What­sapp, Skype etc;* the only thing you know about mobile phone is receiv­ing and mak­ing calls. Your hus­band is talk­ing about stock mar­ket; you only talk about toma­to mar­ket. He’s talk­ing about Forex; you are talk­ing about fruit and veg­eta­bles only. He will see you so back­wards, local and dumb. Upgrade please!
 
10) FAILING TO COMMIT YOUR FAMILY INTO THE HANDS OF GOD:
A wife won’t do well if she fails to com­mit her fam­i­ly into the hands of God reg­u­lar­ly. Don’t make such mis­takes of think­ing you are in charge of your hus­band and mar­riage and you can han­dle things. Be prayer­ful, hand over your fam­i­ly to God dai­ly. May you nev­er labour in vain and anoth­er reaps where you have sown!
 
11) FIGHTING YOUR MOTHER IN-LAW CARELESSLY:
You may fight your Moth­er in-law dirty and think you have won espe­cial­ly if she’s inno­cent, you will end up los­ing. Her son and her­self have been friends and lovers for years before you came; may be before you were born. She was the first ‘wife’ of your hus­band and also the first ‘girl­friend’. Her son can­not divorce her and she is more expe­ri­enced than you in mat­ri­mo­ni­al bat­tles, in fact she is a vet­er­an of many con­flicts. Yes i know that a wife becomes a pri­or­i­ty and num­ber one and some men try to place their mums above their wives . That is stu­pid and sick­en­ing! Apply wis­dom and talk to God and your hus­band about it. But don’t come in with the inten­tion to sep­a­rate moth­er and son. Respect a wor­thy moth­er in-law. Not all of them are wicked. Not all are witch­es. You meet a wicked one, apply wis­dom and avoid her ways.
 
12) TELLING YOUR FRIENDS ABOUT YOUR SEX LIFE:
When you tell your friends about your sex life and how your hus­band rocks you, you are indi­rect­ly telling them to go have a feel of him. They can size you up and know whether your hus­band is hot or not, whether he is sex­u­al­ly ful­filled or not. They may even know your Hus­band’s “turn on” and use it against him then grab your hus­band. Most women have care­less­ly lost their hus­bands as they boast to their friends “my hus­band is too sex­u­al­ly demand­ing, he is an expert when it comes to sex, he is a horse, he almost kills me in bed, he has a horse size” etc… Your friends will pick infor­ma­tion like this and cov­er things up where you have been fail­ing.
 



13) REPORTING YOUR HUSBAND TO HIS MUM:
It looks beau­ti­ful to report your hus­band to his Mum, but the end result will hurt you. Most moth­ers will sup­port their sons any day; chil­dren are always right before their Moth­ers. Seek coun­sel in the right quar­ters, nev­er report your hus­band to his Mum unless his mum is so god fear­ing, hon­est and impar­tial.
 
14) LETTING CHILDREN TAKE THE PLACE OF YOUR HUSBAND:
Many wives aban­don their hus­bands, deny­ing them of love, care and atten­tion as soon as babies begin to arrive they trans­fer all affec­tion to their kids. To sleep in bed, they put the Baby in between them­selves mak­ing the man feel lost and the bond divid­ed. No warm hugs, caress etc.
 
15) USING SEX WRONGLY:
Sex is sup­posed to bind you both togeth­er, it is sup­posed to cre­ate inti­ma­cy and love but in many homes it is the bone of con­tention. Some women do turn sex to a tool of manip­u­la­tion;
Some use it for trade by barter. *Some wives will sud­den­ly become com­man­ders at home when their hus­bands touch them for sex, order­ing the man around, “go and off the Fan” “go and lock the gate” “go and check whether our chil­dren are sleep­ing” “How about that mon­ey I asked you to give me?” Etc…
This is just too bad.
 
Some wives sleep like log of wood in bed while some even wear Jean, knick­ers to bed.
Noth­ing sexy
Noth­ing erot­ic
Noth­ing roman­tic
Noth­ing Invit­ing!
If you con­tin­ue like this you will hurt your mar­riage deeply and you may destroy your future also. He will start lust­ing and chas­ing sexy daugh­ters of Jezebel out there who may fetish him out of home to them­selves.
 
A smart wife builds her home, the stu­pid ones are care­less. I know you will be like.… Why can’t he have self con­trol and stay faith­ful?
 
For­get it dear.
 
We are all humans and things push us to do things we nev­er planned.
 
Be wise!!!
 
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